What’s your fear? Many guys feel inadequate about taking care of a child but they don’t want to release them to have a better life. The best start is to start thinking about someone like this little child that needs a future with a plan. If you can’t offer a secure life right now for this child then you need to consider the child needs which is to have a family and future as well as security.

When guys finally sort it all out and figure out that they can be part of the adoption through open adoption, things seem a lot better. There’s no guilt in choosing adoption and it doesn’t make you less of a man. It does, in fact, make you more of a man because you’re able to remove yourself from the picture and make it all about your child and what’s best for them.

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