I was totally against it. But I don’t have my life together…

“I never figured my first kid would be adopted into somebody else’s family.  I was totally against it. But I don’t have my life together to be a single dad and the mom couldn’t handle one more. We tried to figure out something but when we learned what open adoption is, it changed everything. I have a relationship with my son and he knows I’m his bio dad. He knows why we picked adoption and why we picked his parents. It is the best for him no doubt.”